Had my long awaited gynae appt earlier today, about a lump on me girly bits that they were convinced didnt exist, and yes there is a lump, they're going to remove it in hospital in a few weeks, under local anaesthetic. She also checked everything else, as I explained I was problems weeing, she started to ask about neurological issues which got me in a tizz but she did say its unlikely (as it *could* in theory be MS or something), she says when I go to hospital for the operation she'll do a speculum exam as she thinks I might have a prolapse - scary stuff, speculum sounds horrible?! i didn't know you could get prolapses at 19/20? Got to keep a voiding diary for a few days too, not fun!! Not totally sure what prolapses are to be honest but, after the appt I realised when I cough, I can feel something move down there, same happens when I bear down but I don't know if thats just muscles. She said today she couldn't feel anything but she's not 100% convinced that there's nothing wrong, so I'm not sure... have been told I have a BMI of 34 too and blood pressure was high so have to get GP to check it again next week!