Hi everyone
I am really struggling with my panic and anxiety at the moment, it is really starting to get me down. Now that I have had panic attacks and severe anxiety out in public places it now keeps happening and I am not enjoying the things that I used to enjoy before it all started last August. I can't go shopping without going with somebody and if I do go if I don't get a panic attack going around the shop I will get to the till and my heart just starts pounding and my hands start sweating, I just can't seem to calm myself down. I also can no longer go to coffee shops or restaurants because I feel trapped but I am OK if I sit outside in the fresh air. I can't cope going to places where there are lots of people, I get this horrible feeling like the world is closing in on me and I just want to go home. I can't really cope with get togethers with friends or family, as I start panicking when we all sit down to eat, I feel trapped and my heart starts pounding again! We have got some get togethers with friends and family over the weekend and I'm not looking forward to them at all. I can't take my dog for a walk on my own unless it is just around the corner from my house where I know I can get back quickly. I can just about cope with going to the corner shop which is only about 2 minutes walk but my heart usually starts pounding when I get to the till or if I stop to talk to someone. I feel like a shadow of my former self, and I'm worried that I am also getting a bit depressed. I have been extremely stressed because of my son's illness (chronic fatigue syndrome) which is making things so much worse.
I think I am finding it difficult to get over this because I seem to have developed a phobia about my heart due to all the palpitations I have had. I know my ECG was normal but I keep thinking that they have missed something. It doesn't help that I am waking up every night with nightmares and my heart racing, I am also scared to go to sleep because I think I'm going to die. I spend all day worrying that I'm going to die suddenly of a heart attack or stroke caused by my anxiety it is really starting to take over my life and I am now finding it hard to enjoy anything at all at the moment. I really need to get over this for the sake of my son, he doesn't need his mum being an absolute nervous wreck, I feel such a failure. I can't face going back to the doctors because I get very panicky in the waiting room and when seeing the doctor and I find the small doctor's consulting rooms very claustrophobic.
I just want to feel like me again.