Hi all,
I've had a look through the forum for any other mentions of this but can't see anything.
I find myself getting irritated by things very rapidly and it's becoming a problem. The things that annoy me are repetitive noises that I have little control over, I can deal with most, but my main issue is where I work. I sit on a bank of 4 desks and at some point of the day but pretty much throughout the day each one of the other 3 people will be tapping their desk, tapping their computer mouse, clicking a pen on and off, creating inane noises through their mouth or muttering to themselves. The problem it creates for me is that it breaks my concentration immediately and I can hear nothing else but the noise that they’re making and I find it very difficult to get it out of my head. I get very frustrated by this. It actually makes me feel like throwing something at them to make them aware of it and to shut them up, but obviously I never would.
I have asked them to stop which they do for a while but before I know it it’s started again. So clearly asking them to stop is pointless. Plus I find it very stressful and uncomfortable to ask these people to stop what they are doing.
I don’t want to sound like some crank because I’m not suggesting they should sit there and not make any sound whatsoever. Whenever they’re having a conversation about their work I generally don’t hear them, it doesn’t bother me and I can concentrate.
Once when I asked them to stop the pen clicking I got the response ‘I don’t realise I’m doing it, it helps me concentrate’ Oh the irony.... And I say, ‘I can’t concentrate, it distracts me from doing my work’. Now bear in mind that on my bank of desks sits my boss. You’d really think they’d know better, but clearly is oblivious.
One thing I could do to ease this problem would be to wear headphones, but the company I work at doesn’t allow them (something to do with how they look, I don’t know, crazy if you ask me!). Someone suggested wearing earplugs or putting cotton wool in my ears but I’m just not prepared to do that.
The only thing I can think of doing is pleading to wear headphones. But that presents the uncomfortable situation of having to explain why I need to wear them.
Can anyone suggest anything or does anyone else experience anything like this?
I should mention that I'm taking med for anxiety and mild depression.
Thanks