When I first became ill and I started learning about depression and it's symptoms, I'd look around and think "you must be atleast slightly depressed...and you...and you"
There are people I know who drink a lot, people without many friends or interests, people unhappy with their jobs or relationships. I guess they must live on the borderline of being depressed and I just happen to have crossed that line.
Actually, it can be quite difficult to find healthy, balanced people. I know the sort of person that i want to be: someone at ease with myself, clear about where I'm heading, up for challenges and that is the sort of person that I want to associate with. As far as i can see, those people are the exception rather than the norm!!
Ships in harbour are safe..but that's not what ships were built for.