Re: Hurtful Comments
If you didn't mind such comments then you could laugh it off as something trivial and meaningless, as it's very easy to find fault and criticise people. But even a 'joke' loses its funny side after a while, especially if it's at your expense.
However, it does bother you and you find it hurtful, which can't be helped Moggles. Therefore your only course of action is to speak to people who make such comments and tell them how it's making you feel. If they carry on doing it then it's time to part company. No one should tolerate being made to feel shit about anything and as I said before, it's easy to criticise and find fault in people.
Also as you get used to speaking your mind your confidence will increase - although it can feel awkward at first, naturally.
I hope that helps and you're able to turn this around for yourself.
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KK
Never Surrender, Comrade