Let me preface this by saying I have EXTREME HA myself. I have had tests for literally most kinds of cancer in my life.
But this time, I am absolutely terrified that my mum has cancer. About six weeks ago she was diagnosed with quite serious iron deficiency anaemia. They did a gastroscopy and colonoscopy and didn't find anything (during this time I couldn't eat, sleep or function as I was so terrified and I am 7 months pregnant). As they didn't find any bleeding, it was attributed to the blood thinners she was on and they gave her an iron infusion.
So she's been having blood tests weekly and her hemoglobin was rising consistently. I finally felt like I could breathe a little and believe the doctors and finally feel a little happiness. Until yesterday, when her blood test showed that not only had it not risen, it dropped by 1 point. I can't even describe the feeling of terror that came over me. It was (and still is) a chest-tightening, gripping fear. I KNOW this is not good. I woke up all night having panic attacks and I can't eat.
Now we have to wait another week before another blood test and then a specialist appointment, then probably two more weeks while further tests (pillcam and CT) are performed on her small bowel. I'm an only child, I lost my dad to brain cancer when I was 9. I feel like I am falling apart with the worry about small bowel cancer. Literally falling apart.
I know that there are a number of things it can be and that small bowel cancer is rare but just because it's rare, doesn't mean it doesn't happen. People still get it - and it's very serious. All I can think is that I'm going to lose my mum and I can't face that. She is all I have left. I know no one can diagnose her here, but I just needed to write this down.