Re: TOCD? Need help.
Originally Posted by
Soda
I’ve been really trying not to bother with reassurance seeking lately... but I took this lengthy Sex and Gender test. All the results came back Female (obviously). I’ve been good for a few days and then I started to analyze my face. My therapist told me she thinks I’m very feminine and has never thought of me as masculine when I tried to explain my issues with femininity to her. I told her about this but she just kind of stared and said it’s all complicated but that I don’t seem masculine or to have the want to be masculine. She said there’s no need to try to be hyperfeminine.
I think a lot is going on in my life right now. Im putting a lot of pressure on sex. I’ve only had intercourse times. At the same time my boyfriend is pansexual, which spiked my anxiety too then made me feel guilty. One of my friends has been transitioning, and so seeing his old
Photos I think really also caused some anxiety. So it’s just a jump all the time between HOCD, TOCD, ROCD. It only happens when things are going okay in my life. When they’re not, I’m busy worrying about what isn’t right. It’s really miserable because once I tackle one then it’s the other.
I think about how when I was little I liked science and math, I liked to wear long shorts like a boy. But I also liked English and math. I always wrote from a girls perspective. I shouldn’t bother listing all these stereotypes of boys and girls I know. It’s just driving me insane sometimes.
I think there are too many "labels" these days, and people are trying too hard to fit into one or the other, when the reality is that we can be a bit of each depending on circumstances.
Get on with life and do the things which give you enjoyment. Only by doing that will you discover what you want and who you are.
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KK
Never Surrender, Comrade