Relationship

[laura80]

Wonder if someone can help me! I currently take 100mg sertraline. I stupidly had a drink last weekend. I put myself to bed around midnight and actually wet the bed.
My boyfriend has been funny with me ever since. I haven’t seen him since sat. I’ve asked his brother numerous times if I have said or done anything he said no. I asked again and said not that he can remember.
My partner was awful on the Sunday to the point I cried and he ignored me.
I have had to have a womb biopsy done and I am in agony but not even worried about the result as I am more worried about upsetting him.
Just found out I have an infection too and I am in so much pain.
He text last night but heard nothing today he is so off with me, my mam even agreed to buy him a new mattress.
I feel so awful I can’t concentrate or nothing. It’s just not knowing.

[Lucinda07]

It is a week since the bed was wet. Your boyfriend has had time to cool down, and can take up the offer of a new mattress if he wishes. I think he is trying to punish you by being icy. Its up to him how long this behaviour continues. But its now time for you to have a break & ignore him. When he realises you are no longer "desperate" to receive texts/calls - then he'll come around. Many people, including myself, have been on the receiving end of "sulking". Call his bluff & find something pleasant to do to take your mind off him and also the biopsy. Good luck.

[laura80]

It is a week since the bed was wet. Your boyfriend has had time to cool down, and can take up the offer of a new mattress if he wishes. I think he is trying to punish you by being icy. Its up to him how long this behaviour continues. But its now time for you to have a break & ignore him. When he realises you are no longer "desperate" to receive texts/calls - then he'll come around. Many people, including myself, have been on the receiving end of "sulking". Call his bluff & find something pleasant to do to take your mind off him and also the biopsy. Good luck.

I am just so fed up! If I knew either way that would be easier then just hanging on like a looser! A stupid pathetic woman.

[Lencoboy]

I thought most of us were supposed to be more understanding and forgiving (within reason) towards occasional 'mishaps' like bed-wetting and incontinence in general these days (including vomiting), and it sounds like your boyfriend is still living in the dark ages unfortunately.

[laura80]

Yes still hurts like hell.

If only he would talk to me.

Then I would feel better.

[nomorepanic]

Why not bite the bullet and contact him and say you need to talk about it. Then you will know one way or the other

[laura80]

Why not bite the bullet and contact him and say you need to talk about it. Then you will know one way or the other

I did he was awful, said he was tired.

Wouldn’t speak

Tried to ring and he ignored me.

Not sure what else to do

[nomorepanic]

Ok totally ignore him and cut him off then.

He really isn't worth the effort to be honest.

[Fishmanpa]

Ok totally ignore him and cut him off then.

He really isn't worth the effort to be honest.

I agree 100% Before we were married, my wife stood by my side 100% when I had my 2nd heart attack and then cancer and I was with her 100% when she was in the hospital for three months due to a rare form of encephalitis. I literally would have to clean her up like a baby because she couldn't even go to the bathroom or get out of bed. You are having some health challenges. He should be there 100% What if you were married and he acted like this? IMO, that's a huge red flag.

FMP

[laura80]

Been together 6 months and I have wasted my time.