I, have been very selfish lately with my health anxiety. I've let it over-spill into area's of life I shouldn't of had. Hearing about other people's tragic event's made me worry about myself. Which was just wrong! I've been so self-centered about myself. Worrying about every headache, every bodily pain or strange feeling, about a heart attack, blood clots, every cancer or something under the sun. Which is been so unfair of me.
A few days ago I made a very selfish comment on one of my post and some user did point that out. It was true. So I've been doing my best to make the start of a positive change- just to say. I'm not saying this to try and like "make me look better" or something. It's to show how my own anxiety has effect those around me and how they should have better.
I've booked my Mam and sister a special weekend. They deserve to have something special after how much they have put up with me. Me worrying about every little thing spill into their own lives time and time again. Which isn't right or fair of me. I'm going to try and be a better daughter and sister. They have events they been to be helped with. It can't be, me, me me all the time.
My friends, god they have put up with so much from me. I have spoken to/seen a few of them over the last few days. I've give everything to just listen to them. To their joys and negatives not once taking any chance to mention any health worries even when one tried to start the convo about it. I need to be a better friend to them, because they have been so good to me. They don't need to hear about all the time when they have their own issues to bear and carry.
My boyfriend, god, he has done so much for me. I've done so little. I have to do so much work there. I don't deserve someone so understanding.
Basically there's so many other ways I have been so selfish. That I've let this need to find something to be wrong with me. Chasing it and chasing it. Has effect everyone around me and I'm so lucky to still have them. So I have to make myself better for me. So I can be a better person for all of these people.