Re: I am completely alone
hi,
i totally get that our partners/family dont understand our illness.... i can recall being the same with a friend many years ago, she suffered severe depression, and i could not understand it at all...... unless youve suffered you just dont realise how debilitating it is.... at least with a broken bone, it heals within so many weeks.....
my hubby doesnt talk to me about my anxiety, he doesnt know what to say, but if i want to approach him at any time, i know he would try and help....but basically i choose not to talk that much about it with anyone... because i guess from my past experience of how i was, i know that non sufferers will never truly understand, and thats fine...
ive spent many a day in bed all day... my hubbys just left me to it... he never moans about it, but doesnt give me any sympathy either!
I decided that only I could help myself, so picked myself up, and decided to live in the real world, instead of my head all the time.... so now i get up every day, whether i want to or not, i distract myself by doing things in the house, or going out food shopping, walking dogs, exercise etc... Distraction is key to stoping the negative thinking all day.... its hard to be motivated i know, but no one else is going to help you ....
I dont take meds anymore either, just vit B, a good diet ,lots of water and exercise... So no you are not completely alone, you now have everyone on this forum to help you! We'll kick you into shape...
Have a read of the below link..ref advice to partners...
http://www.anxietynomore.co.uk/advice_to_partners.html
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