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I hope it’s just brain balls TerryX.
It's getting harder for them to get their kicks abusing kids, but it still happens too often for my liking....
He bathed you as a punishment? I mean, how old were you cocker? My boy is 11 and he bathes himself with verbal instructions from me standing outside the door.especially being made to go swimming with that odious Mr Norton, and also be bathed by him, both as a punishment for giggling when other kids deliberately said or did things to make me laugh, which was a form of bullying in itself!
Blimey! What's with these maniacs having jobs working with kids!She even seemed to give him permission to dunk me under the water in the swimming pool within full eyeshot of herself!
I'm not a violent person either (unless I've been bullied and abused for God knows how many years and then something snaps) but I used to be the same - imagining all sorts of crap on those people. Then one day, I decided that they're not worth the stress hormones. (I will still haunt them for a bit tho)These days I often have fantasies in my head about having punch-ups in a boxing ring with Mr Norton at my age now (43), and me knocking the barsteward for six, even though I don't normally like violence and aggression!
A thought is harmless unless we believe it.
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I wonder if today's abusive staff members in such places have gotten smarter and more savvy at hiding their brazen antics?
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Mrs B, my (female) RSW was the one that made me be bathed by nasty Mr N as a punishment. He used to splash shampoo and water in my eyes and face when washing my hair by doing it heavy-handedly, rather than gently. Thankfully he never touched me up in the bathroom though, so I can't and won't be accusing him of paedophilia.
FYI, I was 8 1/2 to 9 years old when Mr N bathed me.
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I wonder the same thing myself, especially as Mrs B seemed to side with Mr N and his crazy antics, despite admitting to not believing in CP herself. I think she was also a little bit oddball herself, and possibly with her own hidden agendas.
Perhaps it might have been the influence of the trade unions or whatever at the time, especially as they were sometimes infiltrated by extremist 'hard-man' elements, particularly back then.
Obviously simpler to just do nothing and sweep the problem under the carpet in order to keep the peace.
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Ditto your views.
The large print giveth, and the small print taketh away.
“I would rather have questions that can't be answered than answers that can't be questioned.” - Richard Feynman
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A thought is harmless unless we believe it.
The smacking ban in Scotland, and the same one to follow suit in Wales some time next year would have been almost unthinkable some 20 years ago. Even my dad back then (who is now very anti-CP) would have said 'not a cat in hell's chance of that ever happening'.
He also believed the same about indoor smoking bans never happening back then, even though he himself quit smoking back in 1983.
Needless to say, he was proved wrong by 2007, as were many others.
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