hi mel hope you dont mind me asking you some questions feel free to ignore me :~)....i am just trying to understand him and what he is doing he is usually such a loving tactile person now he wont hug me or even look at me he says it's guilt at how he's made me feel. he hasgone to live with his mum he hates her flat her cooking her general way of life so why go there rather than here im just soooo confused he says he loves me but wont risk hurting me and kids again he keeps cutting his hair which he was very ocd about before he just seems to have completely changed does any of this ring any bells? xxxthankyou tash