So I think I have a wart on my labia.i found it today and im so scared. I’m 40, and been with my husband for 16 years, and both never had genital warts before so HOW can this be happening? Does this mean he has cheated? I honestly don’t think he would.

It’s about 3mm and quite rough. It was white at first put after lots of poking it is now skin coloured. It isn’t sore or itchy or anything.

Where do I go from here? Will it go away on its own?

What if I’m wrong and it’s cancer? Is there a way to tell.

I’m so worried, so many questions!