ok today i was sat here, thinking about the past and "it"! i was wondering how i got over that horrible part of my life, and i truly think one of the biggest helps was my boyfrind baught me a kitten! i called him stitch! silly i know, but i think the little thing purring when i stroked him, and him playing really calmed me. im sure people say pets are great soothers (better than my 3 year old who just kept screaming...but i do love her too) just a suggestion for somebody who may want an excuse to buy a kitten! ive wangled 3 from my boyfriend, purely medicinal of course (there stitch, lilo and star) xxxx