Keeping a record of all the times you're wrong?
I'm currently doing (or trying to do) online CBT with the help of my therapist. It's slow going, which is probably the nature of the beast. Even with rationalization, it's hard not to panic. I'm also on meds (Lexapro & Clonazapam).
Anyway, I had a post recently about my dog and taking him to a new vet. She said she'd give me a call, asked for my number on Wednesday of last week and never called. I was very, very anxious about it. It wasn't on my mind 24/7 like some things, but it was a concern. I felt like maybe she decided we were too much work for her or that there was something wrong with what I'd been saying. I was afraid I'd have to call her, which I would have done, but was scared to do so.
Then, Saturday, she called. She was incredibly nice, just been busy (life of a vet!). We talked about him, she said nothing I said was worrying and that they dealt with reactive dogs all the time. She gave me lots of options to make him feel more comfortable, take it slow, etc.
So, I was wrong. And I realized there are a lot of times that I am wrong - I mean, anxiety does mess up your thought process.
SO, I wondered if it is a good thing to keep a journal of all of my fears, and then update those entries with an "outcome" to see how many times I'm really anxious about something and it ends up being unfounded. I wondered if this would be similar, or a start, to challenging my thoughts? Ideas? I don't want it to become an exercise in, "well, Poppy, you're always wrong so you must be stupid" as I have low self esteem too, but thought it might be helpful to have a record of times when I was all worked up and it was "just" the anxiety, that there wasn't really any basis.
Granted, a lot of my current health-related fears may never have a clear "outcome" and in my present state of mind I think any clear or quick outcome will be negative or else it will just be something I always fear is lurking around the corner. But maybe it will help.
Ideas?
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