Hiya Beverly,

Is that a support group in your area for carers? You sound as if you are doing an awful lot and possibly need someone (or a group) who would just let you lean on them and have some you time. Of course we are all here and wil help as much as we can with the panic etc but it must be very stressful being a carer.

When I found this site I was massively relieved as I(like you) thought it was just me!! You are not alone and we will help all we can. It is amazing the amount of people who have panic/anxiety to one degree or another I have only found out by talking to people about my experinces and a few people have said OH Really this or that happens to me

I don't think you are selfish at all infact quite the opposite but pls try and get some 'you' time

Take Care
Lucky