We've got visitors arriving shortly who will leave again tomorrow, and I've woken up feeling really miserable about it It's not that I don't want to see them, or that they're not nice people, it's just that this is my space, and I don't like it being 'invaded', or having to pretend that I'm happy and the ideal hostess when inside I'm in turmoil. We'll have to go out to dinner tonight, which is another challenge in itself (I've only just got used to going out for dinner with my family again).
The last time these visitors were here I spent the whole two days (apart from a couple of hours) in my room, in bed with a migraine/anxiety attack. I felt so bad at the time, but now I feel even worse because:
1. I'm afraid the same will happen again, and I can't cope with that level of anxiety again
2. I feel that I can't even excuse myself to my room when I feel overwhelmed, in case they think "there she goes again!" and start to think that I don't want them to visit (they come a long way to visit us, because I can't go to them).
How am I going to get through the next 24hours...?