Re: Paxil and Remeron?
When did you start taking the Remeron (Mirtazapine)?
I would say stick on 20mg of paxil for now. You've only been on it for a month - with most SSRIs, the earliest they start to work is 4 weeks - sometimes it may take up to 12 weeks to be fully settled down on them. As you've only upped the dose a week ago, I would give it another 3 weeks minimum before making any decisions.
Most changes in dosage lead to increased anxiety for a few weeks after you start taking them. It took me 6-7 weeks to settle down on Prozac the last time I took it.
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