Re: fear of having been abused
Hi, i totally understand this one, i think the same things like what if i were abused and didnt remember. I know my dad would never ever in a million years do something like that cos hes just awesome and kind and decent and a great person, but we cant help our thoughts. What i do is push it to the back of my mind, and reason with myself that it could never happen. I to have intimacy issues cos of alot of abuse i suffered at the hands of my mother, it wasnt sexual it was mental but it still hurts. So i think my issues are to do with that. Like i said, just think to yourself what an awesome person your dad is and it makes u realise it couldnt have happened, it helps me anyway. xx
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What is not a dream by day
to him whose eyes are cast.
On things around him, with a ray
turned back upon the past?