Hi everyone, I just joined this site tonight as I felt it was the appropriate time to let off some steam.
Basically, I have been diagnosed with anxiety and depression when I was 16 (now 21) but I have been suffering from anxiety and depression since I was very little. It only got diagnosed and treated when I was 16, which is when I came to realise that something is just not right. I asked myself why do I feel the way I do? and I pretty much found out I had an anxiety disorder. So inevitably I went to my doctor who referred me to a therapist who then diagnosed it. Long story short, I worked with my therapist using CBT for 2 years or so, which gave me some very useful tools and information at fighting my anxiety. However, this wasn't enough as my symptoms were too physical (vomiting, fainting, disorientation) and something else needed to be of assistance. This was medication. At this point a psychiatrist was appointed to me, who put me on fluoxetine (didn't work), then citalopram (did work but made me very sleepy) then paroxetine (worked very well but eventually made me very sleepy) and finally sertraline (worked a little). I was on medication for over 2 years. When they worked they were brilliant, and my anxiety was very manageable. But sometimes, the side-effects outweighed the positive effects of the medication, so I eventually decided to come off.
Now, I am experiencing severe anxiety all over again. It's been over 4 months since coming off (weaning with supervision) and I feel as though I have gone back completely to how I felt before I was on my medication. Sure I am more wise, and I can now work out why I feel the way I do from CBT, but that doesn't stop some of my other symptoms from anxiety. The medication essentially allowed me to get on with my life and use the tools from CBT better. Now I am kind of regretting my choice in coming off medication but at the same time, thinking I shouldn't. Since from day one I never liked the idea of taking something to feel 'normal'. Plus, there is all this negativity about taking medication in general and how it is overprescribed. There is also that 'stereotype' that people have when they find out you are on medication... which I absolutely hate!!
I am in a bad situation at the moment, I had to quit my job because I couldn't cope with the anxiety from it. I am also learning to drive but it has been absolute hell because I am panicking at the wheel. I am also a student at university, and I also find university very taxing on my anxiety, and I am worried I will quit because of my anxiety. All I want to do is just get on with my life, not feel sick to my stomach about things and certainly not avoid things that are vital in my life such as university, driving and a job.
I have been put on a waiting list to see someone about my anxiety, since I was discharged from my psychiatrist when I came off my medication.
I just don't know what to do. I am ashamed to say I've resorted to alcohol to calm my anxiety which is something I thought I'd never do. I can see this already heading down a slippery slope, but I just don't know what I can do in the meantime.