Two more excellent posts Liam,well done.You seem to be making progress, the answers are inside you & im sure youll make the right desicions and compromises to eventually reach a point that you feel your life is more balanced and acceptable.Your honesty is admirable and i wish you a happy w/e . I Look forward to the next instalment. A new thread sounds like a good idea,tho men usualy shy away from such things.thou a little while back on the citalopram forum quite a few responded to such matters ,being anonymous obviously makes people more able to speak about things without feeling embarrassed. All the Best Sue