hi all
just after a bit of advice about my 20 year old daughter
i found out a couple of months ago that she and her 19 year boyfriend were smoking pot
so i was not happy about her doing this and had a good talk with the two of them it turned out that he had been smoking it for a long time (she has only been going out with him since january) but no matter what i said they cant see any harm in it was also worried in case it lead to harder drugs but got told do be stupid mum they can kill you
about a month ago they got a flat together he doesnt work as he has a eye disorder and is on benefits and she works part time
i tried to explain that they would find it hard to manage money wise but they werent bothered
so we have been buying food for them and brought a few things for the flat as we dont mind helping them
but as soon as she got her wages they brought pot which i thought was really bad when you have got bills to pay so we have decided not to help them out any more
but im really worried about how addicted she is and keep thinking will i get a call saying she has taken something really bad
any advice would be very welcome
and thanks for listening