Hi all, I moved to venlafaxine 150mg 2 months ago after being on escitralopram for years.

I've had anxiety (GAD) for most of my adult life but developed depression almost 3 years ago when my husband was diagnosed with a terminal Brian tumour. He passed away in July last year and I feel horrendous.

I know a lot of what I'm feeling is grief but I'm desperate to find a med that suits me.

I've put on a few stone over the years so ideally one that doesn't cause weight gain.

Main side effects on ven is jittery, feeling flat/numb and emotional and bloating/constipation.

I'm having bereavement counselling but would like a med suggestion that might help top. Thanks in advance x