Hi Yvonne

Possibly they are-particularly my eldest who is 12, I maybe don't give them enough credit for their maturity sometimes. It is certainly something I will think about-I think on balance a happier father in a job he enjoys rather than one slogging it out in a job he gets little or no satisfaction from IS preferable and would lead to a more relaxing environment for the 3 of us.

It ain't easy being a divorced dad and trying to get it all right-but this may be the biggest decision of all and IF I decide to do something I would definitely include them in that decision and take on board their input.

Gordon