I woud be interested to hear how do partners cope living with someone who suffers from PA's???

I have just moved in with my partner (we have been together a year) and I have only just started having PA's (only had 2 so far!) But of course when I have them my parter is involved... And afterwards I feel like such a fool as he is so concerened when it happens but when I say oh it's a PA afterwards he seems to go very quiet - He's not one for understanding problems not coz he don't want to but I don't think he knows what to say, and as we know men like to solve problems but this one he can't...
So I feel that I can't really talk to him about it!!
Any suggestions welcome????
Thans [V]



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