I am in a relationship with someone who suffers quite severley with ocd.im trying to understand him better as we are currently going through a bad patch and he says i dont understand. Does OCD make it hard for a person to show emotion and make efforts? such as sending a letter or card or doing something they asked you to do. Do you not think to do it or is it to much effort to do it. JUst wondering if anyone feels the same or has experienced this ?