Serenitie,

one day I will put a post up about my own situation but for personal reasons I have too much going on in my life at the moment which affects me,my daughter who has an icurable ilness and the pending move back to England, and of course my wife who is in the midlle of all of this.

These are major issues which have to be dealt with.

For various reasons i have to be in the right frame of mind to do this accurately,so forgive me for the moment.