a while ago, my mother had cancer, and i was her carer until she died. Now my nan has been diagnosed and im scared that i will be asked to help look after her. I know it sounds horrible but its not something i want to do again, i became so depressed last time, i lost alot of weight and didn't sleep for long time because it caused my anxiety to become unbearable. I won't be able to say no to her if she asked but i really cant go through that again. What can i do to get my priorities straight?