My fella has been private messaging this lass and now speaks to her on MSN, i know i shouldnt be worried about this but its what they talk about that gets to me, she was telling him what knickers she had bought ect. I pulled him up about this (i shouldnt have been snooping but it got the best of me) he told me that it was just a carry on, he could see why i would have taken it the wrong way but he has never and would never cheat. Now i should have left it at that,but i have issuses with paranoia and trust (i am seeking councelling). I have spied a few times and there not been much there, and does look like general chat, i spoke to him about it last night and he said that he doesnt speak to her that much (which im not sure is the truth or not as she seems to pm him alot) but that doesnt mean he is replying all the time. He deleted his posts the other day but he deleted all of them not just hers. He says im worrying over nothing and that she is just a mate, she is 29 with a 4 year old son, we are both 25 this year.
What do you make of it, should i jst trust him? We been together three years now, and we are going somewhere on sat where she is going to be
"Why does life turn you upside down and inside out then back round again"