I work in the hospitality industry. I talk to strangers (and regulars that I know well) all day everyday at work. I am so good at my job. I connect with 99.9 percent of the guests I deal with. I can chat so freely and easily with them.
BUT put me in a social setting and I cannot say a word.
The way I interact with the guests at work affects my pay and my job. Is that why I am so good at it?
Do I lack care of my social well being?