Hi Muffin,
really pleased you've found yourself a good'n. x
And Capricorn, long may your happiness last. Whatever you decide to do, however quickly you decide to reveal how life has been for you, or if you decide to keep part of you private, that's alright. No rule book, we're all different.
I've tried both options with varying degrees of disaster/success. Telling someone you have a mental health problem and sometimes you can't see them for dust....vroooom, gone. Tell them you have a history of abuse and they might get angry and thump the wall...., not very helpful, or one bloke started to cry, I felt very awkward. We're just all different.
One day a 'perfect for me' bloke will turn up.
Hopefully this guy you're talking about is perfect for you.
Best of luck
Doxy