Re: ROCD - Please help :-(
Firstly congratulations...
Insecurity isnt attractive, and you have no reason to be insecure, these girls were before your time... and hes asked you to marry him, so that shows he loves only you.. You dont want to ruin this happy time by being this way...
Your anxiety is causing this, you just have to say to yourself that you wouldnt be this way if it wasnt for anxiety.
I have been married 10yrs, i still have a box of photos of ex's... well hidden away... why should i have to get rid of them, theyre my past memories....
I did recently burn all the letters i found while having a clear out though,,, and im sure if your bf says hes done the same, then he probably has....
Enjoy your present time of happy news, and planning your future... the exes are just that exes, past tense... dont give them any importance...
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.....when all is said and done and we come to the end of our lifes journey, posessions will have no meaning, and the only important questions will be 'was i loved and did i love enough?'.....