Do you 'put yourself out there' often?

I read a really interesting piece in a book called 'One Small Step Can Change Your Life' and it had a short section on a woman who was in a similar situation to you.

She never had any meaningful relationships or met anyone she really liked. But at the same time, she stopped believing she ever would find anyone. (Sound familiar?)

Using the philosophy of Kaizen, she was instructed to make small simple changes that would slightly increase her chances of meeting people.

Taking lunch out in the park, or a cafe instead of at her desk. Shopping at a different store each week. etc

Even if you have no interest in 95% of the people you meet, that doesn't mean you can't be kind, courteous, and give them a nice smile. The one you are destined to meet is out there... you need to give yourself as many opportunities to find her as possible.

Link never rescued Zelda without smashing a thousand boxes, and slaying hundreds of enemies.

So get out there and start smashing boxes!!