Re: Afraid of STDs
The answer to your problem depends on what you want. If it's casual sex there will always be a risk and therefore anxiety. You will end up asking questions and judging the person after you've been intimate with them - ie, when it's too late.
If however you want something more, then you should concentrate on getting to know the person and build a friendship/relationship first. This will also build on your confidence and trust and, I believe, alleviate your fears regarding STDs.
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