Some people may find it embarrassing Gypsy, but I personally don't and I would like to think that a lot of people don't either. If my girlfriend was having this kind of problem I would also find help for her. I don't think the girl mentioned in the posts would be easily identified as "Spindle's girlfriend", given that it is not his real name and he hasn't given us their address or photographs!
I should think Spindle would come across to the majority of people as a very caring and considerate person!
Mate, orgasm can be hard to reach on citalopram and I hear it is worse for women, but this can wear off especially when the treatment is finished and I think anxiety and/or depression will have something to do with it as well! The situation should improve when she starts to feel better.